Sunday, 26 October 2008


Late yesterday afternoon I found myself being driven, by my husband, in heavy rain through the wilds of Dumfries and Galloway: the car skidding off puddles, spray from lorries obscuring the road, dark coming on. We got stuck behind a particularly cautious driver for some miles, overtaking not being an option in such conditions. Sensing Stevie's frustration, worrying slightly about the work I should probably be doing, and not knowing quite what I was letting myself in for, I wondered if we should turn back. But something made me keep these thoughts to myself, and so we found ourselves standing in the rain, hats pulled down, collars up, ringing the bell of an only faintly familiar front door.

And then the door opened, and there in the amber light of a hall bursting with coats and scarves was the smiling face of our host. As we were welcomed in, and our coats taken, delicious smells coming from the kitchen had me trying to peer round the door for a look while at the same time trying not to appear nosy. Thankfully we were ushered downstairs to the sitting room. As we descended we saw big squashy sofas and chairs, a wood burning stove glowing in the hearth, tea-lights in glass holders on just about every flat surface and, crucially, other guests.

Before we knew it we were helping ourselves to drinks and nibbles, and chatting happily away to people who had been total strangers five minutes earlier. The room filled up. I didn't once feel like I didn't belong. Children started to clamber among us. Then it was announced that dinner was ready and we all went upstairs to find a table groaning under the weight of umpteen tempting looking dishes: roasted vegetables, pumpkin soup, salads, chillie, roast spuds. Stevie piled his plate high while I, wanting to try everything, took a little of each. Sitting by the fire I ate the best rice salad I've ever had, and joined in a conversation about the merits of living in the region: beautiful countryside, friendly inhabitants, proximity to the coast. And the downsides: dearth of public transport, rubbish shopping, miles from 'civilisation.' Stevie went for another plateful and I, for a second, thought of asking him to bring me some more rice salad and another spud, but decided to save myself for cake. This was, after all, the home of a budding master baker. How glad was I of that, uncharacteristic, moment of self control fifteen minutes later?

A surprise was announced, happy birthday was sung, and there on the table was a display to make Laduree weep with envy: chocolate cake, Smartie cake, Rocky Road, several cheesecakes, a cream topped pie. It took me some time to compose myself enough to make a decision. I chose chocolate cake and, just to be on the safe side, a hunk of Rocky Road: mmm... There was crunch; there was meltiness; there was moist, dense but light, sponge, and there was intense, almost musky, chocolate depth. After which a visit to the rain soaked pavement for a fag seemed in order.

When I got back inside instruments were being tuned: a fiddle, a guitar, a salt-tree? a bouzouki, and more. I'd never seen a salt-tree before, never heard the name: 'What's it called?' I asked, hoping for clarification.
'A salt-tree' the owner of the strange triangle of wood with strings said, 'with a P.'
Right then. I didn't like to ask where the P went, everyone else seemed to understand. She explained its Medieval origins and its Elizabethan relaunch, then touched the strings with the bow and out came an eerily compelling sound. The sort of sound that leads you to fairy grottoes. I'd heard a bouzouki but not been in the same room as one, and had never associated them with Irish music. But there in the heart of south west Scotland I was transported to mythical rural Ireland, then Elizabethan England, Greece, Morocco, not to mention Glasgow and modern Dublin. All by music played right in front of my eyes, as our hosts' little girl snuggled up beside me on the couch, sucked her thumb, and stroked my hair. Conversation buzzed between songs, about the music itself, the instruments, the passion of those who play while holding down jobs and raising families. It was great to see a group of people communicating through music, and doing something they clearly love doing just for the sake of doing it.

As the children began to fade parents readied themselves to leave. Instruments got packed into cases, coats and hats were donned, and people began to trickle out. We left just after ten with a bagful of cakes and scones. On the way home the rain continued to bombard the road, but we were so busy talking about what a great time we'd had we hardly noticed when the car jerked as it hit a body of water.

That was the birthday party of Kim, bearded rambler, bouzouki player, storyteller, philosopher, father, husband, and genial host. And he thinks he hasn't found the answer to life.


The World According To Me said...

It sounded perfect!
Smartie cake? That sounds like my kind of cake.

Kim Ayres said...

Oh Eryl, it sounds wonderful!

I thoroughly enjoyed myself, but I'm so pleased you & Stevie did too.

And thank you so much for telling the Innuit story! It wasn't just the musicians providing the entertainment :)

Despite piling up every guest with leftover scones and slices of cake as they left, we'll be living off the remains for the rest of the week I think.

I'm so pleased you didn't turn back on the way down. Thank you for coming along and helping to make the evening a special one :)

Jane Dearie said...

As I watched the water rise all day, I wondered how on earth anybody would get out and about, if anybody would dare to try .....you and Stevie did ....and had a really wonderful time by the sounds of things in your stunning description. Very envious at all that food and music ......and your Innuit story? Tell me more, tell it again please!
Jane xxx

debra said...

Sounds like a wonderful time. Nothing quite like the warmth of friends, old and new; and goo food, good times, good company.
It's pretty blustery here in NE Ohio. Wind, rain and the dreaded snow are in the forecast. Would that I could knock on a door and find what you just experienced :-)

Eryl Shields said...

World ~ it was perfect.

Kim ~ leftovers are great, the only problem I have with them is not eating them all at once.

Jane ~ if you let the weather stop you around here you would do nothing most of the time!

The Innuit tale is one I found in Angela Carter's Book of Fairy Tales. If you'd like to hear me telling it pop over to the Storyteller's blog (on my sidebar, it's only a couple of minutes. I'm currently trying to turn it into a narrative poem, at Tom's behest.

Debra ~ absolutely, friends, food, and music: what more could anyone want?

Carole said...

Fun, excellent fun. It appears you know how to party and Kim knows how to give a party. Nice. Again, I am green with envy. It is a color I use a lot in conjunction with you.

Eryl Shields said...

Carole ~ I love a party. I'm always slightly nervous before I go in, but once there amongst people who are all there to have a good time, I invariably have one too. This was a particularly good one: Kim and Maggie definitely know how to make you feel well looked after. And Maggie is such a fantastic cook that even if no one had spoken to me I'd have been quite happy!

savannah said...

lovely! what a grand party that was, sugar - your words had me right there experiencing it all. xoxox

Conan Drumm said...

I think the bazouki was brought into Irish traditional music in the late 60s by just one or two players... a flatter backed version was then more widely adopted. I'd no idea Kim played, your last line puts it very well.

Conan Drumm said...

ps The modern Dublin reference, was it a song from the film Once?

Eryl Shields said...

Savannah ~ it was a great party! I'm glad I was able to share it. XXX

Conan ~ when I got home I couldn't remember what it was called, I just remembered it began with b and had a z in it. Thankfully google was able to fill in the blanks and now I've seen all sorts of different versions on the internet: flat ones, square ones, little tiny ones. Kim's has a round back and he plays it incredibly well. Some people are never satisfied!

In answer to your ps, I don't know the film Once. Or is it that one about the buskers? No, it was an imaginary modern Dublin, as I haven't been there, and the song was a Van Morrison one.

PI said...

I guessed - almost instantly where you were going and I am manfully trying not to be pea-green with envy and I'm really glad you told us about it - almost as good as being there. Even more that the delicious food, it was the spirit of friendship and good will that seeped through.

Leigh Russell said...

I really enjoyed reading this, and loved your wry ending. If that's not 'the answer', I can't imagine what is.

Eryl Shields said...

Pat ~ Oh good, I wasn't quite sure if I'd managed to convey that spirit. I was really hoping to get you (anyone who reads this post) to feel some of what I felt while there; which was definitely and overwhelmingly friendship and good will.

Leigh ~ I'm going to have to look up the exact meaning of 'wry' now: you think you know what a word means, and then someone applies it to you!

savannah said...

thanks, sugar, moving IS a big deal and i feel overwhelmed!!! i really needed someone to say that! xoxoxo

Eryl Shields said...

Savannah ~ you're very welcome. If you think about it, you are dismantling your home in the hope that you can rebuild it elsewhere. It's a huge deal.